I understand the reasoning that undergirds much of this thinking about spanking: Better to feel the pain of being punished by someone in the home who loves you than by someone outside the home who doesn 't. 我明白在这种打屁股式责罚的背后是怎样的动机:在家里被爱你的人惩罚,感受其痛苦,总比在外面被不爱你的人惩罚要好。