You feel you really are completely worthless and unlovable. 你会觉得自己真是毫无价值,一点也不讨人喜欢。
If, however, children grow up without hove and without feelings of self-worth, they feel unlovable and worthless and expect to be cheated, taken advantage of, and looked down upon by others. 然而,如果孩子们盛开在没有爱、没有自我价值感的氛围当中,他们感到不讨人喜欢、没有价值,料想可能被别人欺骗、利用和看不起。
I read something where she said that it's a very difficult thing to be when one is feeling unlovable, Williams said. It's a drain to put out that much energy. 我曾读到过一些文章,其中梦露说,当一个人感到自己不再讨人喜爱时,就很难塑造这样的一个形象,威廉姆斯说,这将渐渐耗尽你的精力,浇灭你的热情。
If you go to the root core of mental as well as physical problems in people, you will somehow encounter the belief that they are powerless, unworthy, unlovable, lonely and doomed. 假如你走进人们精神或身体题目的核心根源,你会莫名其妙的遭碰到一些信仰:以为自己很无助,一无是处,不值得被爱,孤独,逃脱不了宿命。
You need to challenge any belief that the rejection automatically means you are unlovable and unable to make relationships work. 你必须抵抗这样的想法:被拒绝就意味着你不可爱、无法维系一段感情。
They become opportunities for learning instead of proof that we are not good enough, unlovable, unworthy or undeserving of what we want. 它们将转变为学习的机会,而非用来证明我们不够好、不能被爱、没有价值或是不值得拥有我们所渴望的一切。
What if the truth is that I'm hopelessly unlovable? 万一事实上我在爱情上没希望?
No one is born innately unlovable. 没有人天生就是令人讨厌的。
Learn to love with all your heart and accept the unlovable side of others. 学会用自己全部真心去爱一个人,去接受他(她)的那些不可爱的地方。
If children are often rejected, they may eventually view themselves as unlovable, and are unable to trust others. 当一个孩子经常被否定,他最终可能会讨厌自己,无法相信别人,而这样的观念有时会跟着他一辈子。